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Leslie Ihde LCSW, 15 Oakcrest Rd., Ithaca, NY  607.754.1303

New Life for Bella

9/13/2019

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After a great deal of thought and research, I have decided to offer Bella a home with another dog.  I've had to think of what is best for Bella, and not what is best for me.  

Bella has been coming out of her shell slowly, but in my home she has spent the vast majority of her time in the corner of my bedroom.  The experts I have consulted have all felt that another dog is the best way to go.  She needs canine companionship and leadership.  She needs to learn to be a dog.

I tried her with a puppy, and with 3 adult Bernese boys.  She did the best with the adult Berners.  Yesterday, I packed up her bed, her medical records and her food and let her go to her new home with Joan.  Joan kindly brought her friendly boy, Ozzie so that the two dogs would begin their bonding in the car ride back to her home.  

I shed a few tears, and held Bella's face in my hands as I said good-bye.  I am hoping that this sweet dog will continue to heal with her new friend.
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LV
9/14/2019 08:00:37 pm

I know what a hard decision this was but I applaud you for having the courage to do what was best for Bella. She seemed to respond to the friendly fellow of her own breed. I love that her eyes brightened when he licked her. Maybe he will be able to help her further out of her cage. But you have done such a wonderful job with that sweet dog. You showed her so much love and kindness and now you are letting her go so that she might better find her way in this very good new home with a doggie friend. That is true compassion. Bless you, Leslie, and I am sure all your readers here are sending Bella all their very best wishes for this next phase of her journey.

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Isabelle
9/27/2019 02:49:51 pm

Just read this. How wonderful you are. Perhaps you actually did what you started out to do - act as a foster parent to Bella to get her to a place where she was ready and able to go to the right home for her.

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